Friday, 30 December 2016

NDLEA Arrests 215 Drug Suspects In Nigeria




The Bayelsa State command of the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency (NDLEA) on Thursday said it arrested 215 suspected drug traffickers and confiscated 219.999 kgs of illicit drugs in the state in 2016.

The command’s Principal Staff Officer, Public Affairs, Superintendent Osakwe Ikenna, in an electronic statement said 164 of the suspects were males, while 51 were females.

Ikenna noted that the command secured 19 convictions and counseled 149 drug addicts.

He said:

“At present, two residential clients are still undergoing rehabilitation.

“The command equally carried out aggressive and far-reaching public enlightenment through lectures, radio and television programmes, print media, drug free clubs and collaboration with various groups, communities and associations.”

According to him in the last quarter of 2016, the command nabbed 39 suspects including 29 males and 10 females and seized 52.997 kgs of illicit drugs from traffickers in the states.

Thursday, 29 December 2016

Court sentences son of former House of Reps member to death by hanging



 A High court sitting in Katsina State has sentenced 32 year old Mu’ammar Tukur, son of former House of Representatives member and District Head of Bakori, to death by hanging for culpable homicide.

Tukur was dragged before the court for using a knife to stab one Shafir Muktar to death on April 21st 2008 during a fight between him and some other young men at a football viewing center.


Delivering judgment in the case today, the presiding judge, Justice Abbas Bawale, said the argument put forward by the convict's counsel, AbdulAziz Olagoke, were unsustainable.

Bawale ‎said that the accused went into hiding between 2008 and 2013 after committing the crime and was arrested at the grave yard during the funeral of his deceased mother.

He added that Tukur's explanation that he was provoked to commit the crime was not satisfactory because he left the scene and came with the metallic instrument to commit the crime.

The judge said the prosecution had proved the case beyond reasonable doubt as required by law and sentenced the convict to death by hanging. He stressed that the plea for leniency could not be entertained because the court’s discretion was blocked by law and directed that the plea should be set to the state governor.

Abia House Of Assembly speaker impeached, new one sowrn in



The Speaker of the Abia State House of Assembly, Martins Azubuike, has been impeached and a new speaker, Kennedy Njoku, has been sworn in.

The former speaker was impeached today by 20 out of the 24 House of assembly members. Azubuike was impeached over allegations of gross misconduct.

"BSc, Masters degrees, eight professional certificates" Inspiring story of Nigerian man who wrote JAMB 7 times




Mocked, criticized and called a failure after writing JAMB seven times without gaining admission into the university, and even contemplated suicide, Precious Ogechi Ogbueri, went on to earn a BSc, Masters degrees, seven professional certificates and and to crown it all, he qualified as a Chartered Environmentalist in the UK.  Below is his inspiring story:

After my secondary education, I decided to further my studies.
I wrote the 1st, 2nd, 3rd and 4th JAMB exams and they were all cancelled. I decided to take the bull by the horn. I went to Enugu State University for a pre-degree program. On the completion of the program, I was offered a course in faculty of Science but the cultism in the institution as at then was unbearable for me, having being attacked twice. I decided to use the 5th JAMB that was released to study at University of Port Harcourt. Then ASUU had a protracted strike that lasted for over six months, I needed to write a 6th JAMB and I scored 274 but that score couldn’t offer me admissions as the two JAMBS were combined because the strike entered another year.
After the first 6yrs at home, WAEC too was cancelling my results and I wrote WAEC/NECO four times. I was frustrated, mocked, criticized and called a failure. Some of my classmates were already youth Corpers. Many out of pity told me to quit because school wasn’t for me. The criticisms, mockery and name calling from people that didn’t know what I was passing through compounded my issues and I started thinking of quitting/suicide.

One evening, my brother in-law/mentor told me “Ogechi nobody can frustrate or determine the outcome of your life except you, don’t quit trying, you’ll be whatever you want to be” I repeated that to myself over a hundred times that night and I assumed the position of a CEO in my life.

I enrolled for another pre-degree program in University of Port Harcourt, and wrote the 7th JAMB and it was also canceled but thank God I passed the BASIC program. So to gain admissions to do a bachelors program, I wrote JAMB 7times, WAEC/NECO 4times and Pre-degree 2times.

However, when I finally entered University, I passed Rivers State government scholarship exams to study abroad but few weeks to departure, another government took over in 2007 and cancelled the scholarship. But I told myself I must study in Nigeria and abroad…..

People called me a failure but, I don’t know if I am still a failure, if school is for me now or not, or if am still bewitched as people said..

All I can remember now is that I have done BSc in Nigeria, Masters in Safety and Environmental Management in UK, have seven additional professional certifications, qualified as a Chartered Environmentalist in UK and have worked both in Nigeria & Scotland.

I have learnt that setbacks are actually strongholds in disguise if we don’t quit trying.
I have learnt that persistence wears off every resistance.
I have also learnt as a Christian that if your faith says Yes, God won’t say No, only be DETERMINED.
I give God ALL the glory and shame to the devil.

More Photos of  Precious, below...



Purported Boko Haram video is nothing but mere terrorists propaganda - Nigerian Army




The Nigerian Army has described the purported new video released by Boko Haram leader Abubakar Shekau on Thursday, as mere propaganda.
A statement issued by Army spokesman, Brigadier General Sani Usman, said the attention of the Nigerian Army is drawn to a video clip released by Boko Haram Terrorist group from an undisclosed location a while ago, showing its purported leader, making spurious claims.

 "While effort is on going to subject the video for further forensic analysis, the Nigerian Army wishes to reiterate that it has captured and occupied the last known stronghold of the terrorists group in the Sambisa forest. We would like to reassure the public that this video is nothing but mere terrorists propaganda aimed at creating fear in the mind of people and to remain relevant.
"Therefore, there is no cause for alarm, more so as concerted effort in clearing the vestiges of Boko Haram terrorists wherever they might be hiding is still ongoing. Our gallant troops deployed in various parts of the north east have continued to intensify search for all persons associated with Boko Haram terrorist group with a view to bring them to justice. Consequently, the public are hereby enjoined to go about their normal lawful business, remain vigilant and security conscious. They should also report any suspicious person or group of persons to security agencies."
In the 25-minutes video, Shekau, flanked by masked armed fighters, first made a lengthy introduction in Arabic before he started talking in Hausa.
"We are safe. We have not been flushed out of anywhere. And tactics and strategies cannot reveal our location except if Allah wills by his wills by his decree. You should not be telling lies to the people. If you indeed crushed us, how can you see me like this? How many times have you killed us in your bogus death? Our aim is to establish an Islamic Caliphate and we have our own Caliphate, we are not part of Nigeria"
He also took a shot a President Buhari:
"I thank Allah. I thank Allah. I made a short preamble because of the Nigerian transgressors who deceived their forefathers and grandparents. Allah says they are merely the tails of pigs and monkeys. My message for you transgressors. You Buhari, your age is about 72, since they put you in this nonsense you should repent. You should fear Allah, and if you don’t repent you will see," he said.

Terry G, Klint D’Drunk, Mr Patrick set for Ibari Ogwa’s Comedy Night



In continuation to the long started 30 Days of Entertainment Exhibition, Ibari Ogwa Entertainment World has added another major show to its list of events for the festive season.

Another major act coming on the list happens to be the hit man of TGP Entertainment, Terry G, alongside Selebobo, Klint D’Drunk, Mr. Parick and friends.
 
Known for its quality host of top concerts and shows in the East of the Niger, Ibari Ogwa Entertainment World tagged this very one that will hold on Friday, December 30, 2016, Comedy Night; though bigger events will continue rolling day after day till the exhaustion of 30 Days of Entertainment Exhibition.

Still to come are the likes of Kcee, Selebobo, Charass, Ruffcoin, Xbusta, Mr. Ibu, Mr. Patrick, Pete Edochie, King Owugiri, Klint D'Drunk, Bright Chimezie and few others who will be entertaining as categorically placed in order of performance.

Kicked off from December 24, 2016, it is expected to last till January 22, 2017





‘I Will Wait For My Chance To Play In Man City’- Super Eagles Striker Iheanancho Says




Kelechi Iheanacho has disclosed that he will wait for his chance at Manchester City following the return of first choice striker Sergio Aguero from a four-match ban.

Pep Guardiola welcomes Aguero back to his squad with the arrival of Brazil’s Gabriel Jesus providing more competition to their striking department. But the Nigeria international, who was on target against Hull City, has stated that he will wait for his chance at the club.

“We are happy to have Sergio back in the team, but I need patience to get my chance,”

Iheanacho told Manchester Evening News.

“Whoever the manager picks is going to play, but our attacking players can play in so many different positions so he has plenty of choices. Personally, I have to wait for my chance.

“There is always a lot of competition at a big club like Manchester City, so I need to keep working hard, having patience and hoping for the best,”

he concluded.

The 20-year-old has scored four goals in 12 English Premier League games for Guardiola’s side and will be hoping to get a run-out when they face second-placed Liverpool on December 31.

EFCC Reaveals - ‘Rice Is Not Plastic But It Is Unsuitable For Consumption



The National Agency for Food and Drug Administration and Control (NAFDAC) on Thursday said laboratory result of the suspected fake rice showed that the product was not plastic but was contaminated with micro-organisms. The Acting Director General of NAFDAC, Yetunde Oni, disclosed this at a news conference held in conjunction with the Nigeria Customs Service in Abuja, the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports.

Oni said the seized rice was unsatisfactory and therefore unwholesome for human consumption, stressing that the consignment would be destroyed upon handover by the Customs.

She added that the product branded ”Best Tomato,” was in 25kg bag, without NAFDAC number, batch number, date markings and details of the manufacturer.

Oni said, “Floating” was negative, sedimentation was positive, cooking was normal, odour was normal, colour was off-white and E-coli was within specification.

Actor RMD And Wife Jumobi Celebrate 16th Wedding Anniversary



Actor Richard Mofe Damijo -RMD in a new post has showered praises on his Wife Jumobi nee Adegbesan on the occasion of their wedding anniversary.

He wrote:

“Jumobi to the world, Aabike to me. The mother of my kids, love of my life, my rock, my shield, my baby, my woman, my everything. I want to say thank you but that’s not enough, I want to say I love you that’s still not enough, I want to say God bless you and that also seems inadequate for all you have been to me and the kids.

You have kept me grounded, loved me unconditionally, prayed with me and for me and gone without to ensure I shine. You know how when close friends and family ask “How is bros?” and you respond with “He’s there, I still haven’t killed him in his sleep yet” they laugh at the humour but I smile with admiration because I know the truth. The truth is that you have consistently tolerated me and all my excesses and for that I am extremely grateful.

I don’t know how I would have done all I have done and I’m doing without your support.

Thank you for deliberately taking a back seat to make me shine.

You know baby, God has put to shame those who said we wouldn’t last. It’s amazing how far we have come. 16years and counting ain’t bad is it now?

Yea, I know they are not enough but I’ll still go ahead and say THANK YOU, I LOVE YOU and GOD BLESS YOU my ABK. Happy wedding anniversary baby.”

Just like yesterday when they got married and Jumobi left AIT (Lunch Break). How time flies! Happy Anniversary to the Damijos. Wish them many more beautiful years.

NEW MUSIC – Mad Over You (Mix) by Mr Eazi



So, Mr Eazi was in the studio the other day and decided to play around with – Runtown’s Mad Over You. Here is what we get!

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Wednesday, 28 December 2016

Much ado about MMM By Adewale Kupoluyi




I have read with deep concern, the various accounts shared by many Nigerians on their sad experiences on the Mavrodi Mundial Moneybox Ponzi scheme that has created a lot of apprehension and uncertainty in the country. Because of this unfortunate development, millions of patrons of the Ponzi scheme have been thrown into confusion having placed a one-month ban on all withdrawals starting from December 13. The MMM has claimed that it had frozen the accounts to avoid preventable challenges during the Yuletide in the purported negative media reports given to the scheme.

The MMM is not new in the business world. It is on record that the organisation began as an office equipment company in Moscow, Union of Soviet Socialist Republics in the 1980s, before moving into the financial sector when the scheme collapsed and many investors lost their money. The MMM was able to win the hearts of many Nigerians with its ‘30 per cent per month’s return-on-investment in addition to other acquirable bonuses. But the hard truth is that despite the mouth-watering offer, the risks associated with the scheme seem to be more. No wonder, the company was “wise” enough to have advised customers to “use your #SpareMoney only (and) don’t be unnecessarily greedy.” What this expression tells me is that the operators of the scheme have cleverly and tactically insulated themselves from any undue liability and legal encumbrances. The scheme has since been declared illegal by the Federal Government.

Before coming to Nigeria, the MMM had similarly operated in South Africa and Zimbabwe with the same business model, which claimed a 30 per cent per monthly return-on-investment through a ‘social financial network’ until the accounts of its clients were frozen. Similarly, in 2016, the Chinese government banned the scheme on the grounds that it was a Ponzi scheme, unregistered and hence, was tagged fraudulent. What the organisation does is to manage payments in such a way that quick returns to the first investors from money invested are given to later investors in a manner described as robbing Peter to pay Paul.

With the controversies surrounding the modus operandi of the MMM, Nigerians seem to have forgotten so fast the lessons learnt from the failed operations of “wonder banks” in which billions of naira went down the drain under similar circumstances, despite warnings by the National Assembly, the Central Bank of Nigeria, the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission as well as the Securities and Exchange Commission, suggesting that the scheme was fraudulent, but then, many Nigerians still patronised it. Three major reasons could be attributed to this doggedness. First is the current economic situation in the country that has brought about untold and high incidence of unemployment, inflation and poverty. Hence, people would want to do anything humanly possible to survive at a great risk.

Second is the secretive and greedy nature of many of the participants, who kept the offer to themselves, perhaps, to prevent others from benefitting, thus making them highly vulnerable in the process of secretly dealing with the MMM. Third is the weak regulatory framework that allows such a system to exist without having to pass through the necessary due diligence, checks and screening. No wonder, the MMM had the audacity to tell the Nigerian government to look at the benefits of the scheme to the over three million Nigerians within its one year of operation in the country, claiming that the scheme was the “only source of livelihood for many people”.


The ripple effects of the MMM invasion have begun telling on the people. Not a few “investors” were reported to have either committed suicide or attempted such. For instance, one is the story of a man from Benue State, who was found to have ingested insecticide, having invested N300,000 meant for his wedding in the dicey scheme! From the survey that I recently conducted, many people seem to be affected by the loss but would rather prefer to remain silent rather than lament their ordeals while many would rather prefer to keep mute for the fear of being stigmatised. After all, they never told anyone before going into the scheme! That is usually the problem with those who fall victims to fraudsters. They hardly inform others they are deeply engrossed in such a deal until everything crumbles and danger becomes the inevitable.

Despite the ordeal happening now, it must be appreciated that people should be free to invest in whatever business interest they so desire. That is why I won’t be surprised that the MMM may not be the only active Ponzi scheme around. There is the likelihood that many of such programmes exist under various names and brands. Whenever people are committing their resources into such deals, others hardly know of such until things begin to unfold and they cry out of the untold hardship and negative consequences that may arise. It is the secret nature of the patronage of the Ponzi schemes that makes many innocent people to lose their head earned resources and savings, thereby increasing the level of poverty in the land.

As a way forward, regulatory agencies should do more by helping the citizens in beaming their searchlights on other schemes to verify what is happening to them before they become another source of national problem, source of worry and tragedy. The whole scenario bordering on how the MMM has been managed has shown that the economic problems that encourage people to look for money at all cost, is not peculiar to Nigeria alone. Governments should come together to see how common problems could be discussed with a view to finding sustainable alternative to Ponzi schemes that would add value to the real sectors of the economy through spending.

It is only hoped that by January, the scheme would come alive again as it has planned to do by offering another opportunity for investors to access their funds. If this becomes a reality, they should pull out. I won’t be surprised that in order to sustain their interest in the scheme, an additional accrual of over 30 per cent could be dangled to lure participants into keeping their keeping funds in the scheme and even put in more resources after January. I really think they should not be lured again, in case the opportunity represents itself. They should look for other means of making money despite the economic recession currently facing the country.

a big lesson for all is that people should learn to be open, as much as possible, to those they could trust. I kept wondering why a very close friend of mine of many years should now be crying wolf now after the bitter experience when I was never consulted before deciding to join and invest in the scheme ab initio. Government should do more sensitisation of the citizens on the dangers that could befall them whenever they are confronted with issues that concern financial intelligence and breach of public trust. It is only hoped that the MMM would afford its depositors another opportunity to have a rethink. It’s just a matter of days for that to be or not to be!

Woman Kills Husband Over Christmas Food



While Nigerians were celebrating Christmas in their homes, a housewife, Christiana Odo, allegedly killed her husband, Rominus, for failing to provide money for the family during the celebration.

PUNCH Metro learnt that the incident happened at the couple’s home on London Barber Street, Majidun, in the Ikorodu area of Lagos State.

It was learnt that Christiana, 37, had asked the husband for money for food to celebrate Christmas, but the husband had said he didn’t have any money.

This was said to have led to a quarrel between the couple, which degenerated into a fight.

Our correspondent was told that in the ensuing scuffle, Christiana, a mother of three, picked a kitchen knife, with which she stabbed the husband to death.

A police source said the incident happened around 5.20pm, adding that it threw the community into confusion.

He said, “The woman asked the man for money for food, but the man turned her down, saying he didn’t have money. This led to an argument and the man hit her. They fought and the woman, in anger, went into the kitchen and got a knife with which she stabbed him to death.

“What attracted neighbours was the man’s scream for help as he was drenched in blood. The woman said it was not intentional.”

The landlord was said to have reported the case to policemen from the Owode Onirin division, who arrested the suspect.

The victim’s corpse was reportedly deposited in the Ikorodu General Hospital’s morgue.

The Police Public Relations Officer, SP Dolapo Badmos, confirmed the incident, saying the case had been transferred to the State Criminal Investigation and Intelligence Department, Yaba.

She said, “It was a resident that came to report at the station that the man fought with his wife. In the process, the woman stabbed him to death. The police visited and photographed the scene. The suspect was arrested and the corpse deposited in a morgue. The case is still under investigation as we await the result of the autopsy. Meanwhile, the case has been transferred to the SCIID.”

HOW HAZARD SCORED HAT-TRICK DRUNK – RIO MAVUDA



Eden Hazard’s captain at Lille, Rio Mavuba, has revealed that the now Chelsea star was drunk when he netted his famous hat-trick during his last game for the French side in 2012.

Hazard starred in his former side’s 4-1 demolition of Nancy in May 2012, netting a hat-trick in the first half-hour of the game at the Stade Metropole.

According to Mavuba the Belgian had gone out for drinks the night before in the knowledge that it would be his final game for Lille, with a move to Chelsea already arranged for the summer.

The midfielder added that Hazard had not slept a wink prior to the game.

Mavuba told reporters, “We were certain to finish third and we were facing Nancy the following day.

“It was Hazard’s last match with Lille and he wanted to organise a little something.

“We decided to go have a little drink. A little drink that dragged on somewhat. The following morning, Eden was still drunk.

“That evening against Nancy, not even with 30 minutes played, Eden had already bagged a hat-trick.

“The guy had not even slept, he drank for the entire night and he put away a hat-trick in 30 minutes.

“We all looked at each other [and] we told ourselves that this guy was the real deal.”

Since joining Chelsea, Hazard has since gone on to win the Premier League with Chelsea and has been crowned the  PFA player  of the year

Botha: It would be unbelievable to represent Australia



Johan Botha has captained his native South Africa and played in 123 international matches for the Proteas, but says it would be "unbelievable" to represent Australia at the highest level.

Born in Johannesburg and a regular feature in South Africa's limited-overs teams between 2005 and 2012, Botha moved to Australia four years ago and was granted citizenship by his adopted country last month.

The 34-year-old has impressed in the Big Bash League for Sydney Sixers and is considered an outside bet to earn selection in Australia's squad for an upcoming Test tour of India.

"It would be unbelievable," Botha is quoted as saying by Cricket Australia's website when asked what it would mean to play for the nation.

"It's a team I've watched for a long time, especially growing up when South Africa didn't play international cricket.

"Australia was my favourite team to watch. To do that I think it would feel a little bit unreal but we'll have to wait and see.

"I suppose there might be a chance, a very slim chance and as long as there's that, there's a little chance. But it's up to Cricket Australia.

"I just need to hopefully help the Sixers win some games and if it comes my way, great. If it doesn't then I'm going to give the Sixers everything I've got."

Australia selector Mark Waugh described Botha as an "unusual off-spinner" during a Big Bash commentary stint on Tuesday, adding: "Tell you what, he wouldn't be the worst in India would he?"

MMM NIGERIA: I’M NOT THE OWNER, FOUNDER – PASTOR ERNEST MBANEFO



A self-styled Nigerian pastor, Ernest Chigozie Mbanefo has denied reports that he owns the popular Ponzi money doubling scheme, MMM Nigeria.

Recall that the media was recently awash with reports claiming that he is behind the Ponzi money doubling scheme.

Reacting to the report, Mbanefo insisted that he was an “Ordinary Participant like the over 2 million Nigerians who are participants of the MMM Nigeria.”

The self – styled pastor stressed that he has no “acqintance” with the founder of the Ponzi scheme.

According to Mbanefo, he makes contribution to the scheme and is also laible to risk like everyone else.

In a statement he personally signed, Mbanefo said, “I wish to use this opportunity to declare the following:

“I am neither the Owner nor the founder of MMM Nigeria.I do not have any contact or acquaintance with the owner(s) or Founder(s) of MMM Nigeria.

“I did not introduce MMM to Nigeria, but am glad it came. I am an Ordinary Participant like the over 2 million Nigerians who are participants of MMM Nigeria. I registered to join MMM Nigeria on the 2nd of June 2016 (see image for proof below).

“I registered to be a guider (knowledgeable participants), and became a guider after fulfilling the requirements of the course.I registered and own the domain mmm-nigeria.net which expires on the 7th of June 2019 (could be extended) Other websites owned by other participants include;http://mmmnigeria.net/ ,http://www.bukasblog.com.ng/ 2016/08/mmm-nigeria-office- website-register-30-profit- investment.html,http:// mmmnigerian.weebly.com/,http:/ /vivica277.blogspot.co.za/,htt p://247networkz.blogspot.co. za/2016/09/make-money-in- nigeria-with-mmm-nigeria.html.

“I make financial contributions (provide help) to the MMM Nigeria community like everyone else and accept all the benefits and risks like everyone else. On the 13th of October 2016, I provided help of N3,000,000.”

Bahd Guy? Drake And Jennifer Lopez Confirm Their Relationship (Photos)


Drake is back on the dating scene again a week after his
breakup with Rihanna. This time, Drake is trying at love with
the 47-year old musician, Jennifer Lopez.

J.Lo, as she’s popularly known reportedly turned down a
major gig this week to spend time with Drake and the pair,




have released pictures of them all cuddled up.

“Buhari Assures Full Board Appointments By January 2017” – Presidency



The Presidency has assured that President Muhammadu
Buhari will embark on full reconstitution of board
appointments at the beginning of 2017.
The assurance was given by the Senior Special Assistant to
the President on Media and Publicity, Mallam Garba Shehu,
in an interactive session with State House correspondents in
Abuja on Tuesday.

Nigerian Govt “Wields The Big Stick” On 50,000 Ghost
Workers, Saves N200 Billion In 2016
The delay in the appointments of members of the boards
and agencies by the President Muhammadu Buhari-led
administration has been generating interest and comments
from various quarters particularly from members of the
ruling All Progressives Congress (APC).
Shehu, however, assured that the process will be fully back
on track at the beginning of the new year.
“You know that the reconstitution began methodically, from
sector by sector. You should expect that to resume at the
beginning of the new year.
“The president has given directions on what to do,” he said.
On the agricultural programmes of the Federal Government,
the Presidential aide said that the President’s persistent
calls for a return to farming was yielding good results.
“The talk about agriculture has driven people to the farm.
This year, there is a huge boom in the rural economy.
“We have witnessed an excellent harvest. Farmers are
getting value for their output. What has encouraged farmers
the more is the increasing availability of extension
services,” he added.

Over 53,000 Condoms Were Distributed At The Calabar Carnival Village(see Reason)



The United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA),said it has so
far distributed over 53,000 condoms through its Wise-up
Cross River State campaign at Calabar Christmas Village.

Mr. Olamide Onifade, Head, Monitoring and Evaluation Unit,
UNFPA, Wise-up Cross River State, disclosed this in a
release he issued and made available to the News Agency of
Nigeria (NAN) in Calabar on Sunday.

Read What This Man Said About Domestic Violence



I bring up issues like this to better our society. It’s only a
mad man that will wake up in the morning, make love to his
wife, eat with her and the next thing he starts beating her
for being a good wife.

If we keep waiting for troubles to happen in marriages and
we react by calling the husband Coward and other such
names, it would keep leading to more deaths like we had in
Ibadan where Yewande was said to have stabbed her
husband to death, after injuring him the previous night.
There is also a recent case of a wife who stabbed her
husband to death in Lagos on Christmas day.
These things don’t just happen, but men can’t speak up
about the insults and abuse they are suffering in the hands
of bad wives because society will laugh and even call them
‘woman-wrapper’.
This orientation MUST change. We should encourage
couples to live in mutual respect and not to be imposing it
on men to take every nonsense, until he’s injured or stabbed
to death in worst cases.
Everyone has their elastic limits. You can’t keep insulting a
man and keep saying he should walk away. That is a wrong
approach. If you are not ok just leave the marriage, rather
than use your bad mouth to turn your husband into a wife
beater.
The truth is bitter, but it must be said.