Read What This Man Said About Domestic Violence

I bring up issues like this to better our society. It’s only a
mad man that will wake up in the morning, make love to his
wife, eat with her and the next thing he starts beating her
for being a good wife.

If we keep waiting for troubles to happen in marriages and
we react by calling the husband Coward and other such
names, it would keep leading to more deaths like we had in
Ibadan where Yewande was said to have stabbed her
husband to death, after injuring him the previous night.
There is also a recent case of a wife who stabbed her
husband to death in Lagos on Christmas day.
These things don’t just happen, but men can’t speak up
about the insults and abuse they are suffering in the hands
of bad wives because society will laugh and even call them
‘woman-wrapper’.
This orientation MUST change. We should encourage
couples to live in mutual respect and not to be imposing it
on men to take every nonsense, until he’s injured or stabbed
to death in worst cases.
Everyone has their elastic limits. You can’t keep insulting a
man and keep saying he should walk away. That is a wrong
approach. If you are not ok just leave the marriage, rather
than use your bad mouth to turn your husband into a wife
beater.
The truth is bitter, but it must be said.